Patrick’s Story of Faith and Belonging 

Patrick, a man with IDD, holding a cross

In our recent blog post, Faith and Belonging: Supporting Spiritual Wellness This Easter, we explored the many ways faith supports overall well-being, and the barriers that often prevent people with developmental disabilities from fully participating in spiritual life. While transportation, communication, and lack of inclusive practices can make full participation difficult, stories like Patrick’s remind us of the joy and strength that come when those barriers are thoughtfully addressed. 

Patrick has always valued his faith. He is deeply connected to his church, and attending Mass is an important part of his weekly rhythm. For him, faith isn’t just about worship, it’s about feeling community.  

A Place to Belong 

One Sunday, Patrick’s Direct Support Professional, Chris, accompanied him to church. Chris immediately noticed how many people knew Patrick by name. As they enjoyed a community breakfast after Mass, members of the congregation stopped by their table to say hello, check in, and catch up. Patrick lit up, and it was easy to see that he wasn’t just a guest at church; he was part of the community.  

Patrick’s connection to his church gives him something deeply personal: a space where he is valued not for anything he does, but simply for who he is. The familiar music, the structure of the service, and the warm presence of the congregation all offer a sense of stability and peace.  

The Role of Faith in Well-Being 

Spiritual wellness is a deeply personal part of health. For Patrick, being part of a faith community supports his emotional and social well-being. It allows him to express himself, build relationships, and take part in something larger than himself.  

Belonging to a faith community gives Patrick an anchor, a place where he feels connected, included, and respected. These experiences help foster confidence, reduce isolation, and support his overall sense of purpose.  

Building Inclusive Communities of Faith 

Patrick’s story is a reminder that faith can be a powerful source of connection and belonging. When people with developmental disabilities are welcomed into spiritual spaces, not just accommodated but truly embraced, communities grow stronger.  

As John 15:17 says, “This is my command: Love one another.” That love takes shape in small, consistent ways, in saying hello, saving a seat, sharing a cup of coffee, and making sure no one feels left out.  

To learn more about supporting spiritual wellness for people with developmental disabilities or how to create a more inclusive faith environment, contact Jeff Siegel, AbleLight Director of Faith Integration, at Jeff.Siegel@AbleLight.org.